Comments for www.pastcaring.org http://www.pastcaring.org Help you get past caring Sun, 20 May 2012 07:04:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on Advice on how to breakup with my boyfriend? by heena http://www.pastcaring.org/boyfriend-breakup-advice/advice-on-how-to-breakup-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1#comment-674 heena Sun, 20 May 2012 07:04:59 +0000 http://www.pastcaring.org/boyfriend-breakup-advice/advice-on-how-to-breakup-with-my-boyfriend#comment-674 Just go away leaving a letter behind.. the best way.. @<br><b>References : </b><br> Just go away leaving a letter behind.. the best way.. @
References :

]]> Comment on I need advice from divorced women with kids…? by tesla_morris http://www.pastcaring.org/divorce-advice-for-women/i-need-advice-from-divorced-women-with-kids/comment-page-1#comment-685 tesla_morris Sun, 20 May 2012 06:55:59 +0000 http://www.pastcaring.org/divorce-advice-for-women/i-need-advice-from-divorced-women-with-kids#comment-685 You can do this. Women, by nature, are able to buckle down and do what needs to be done to protect and provide for their children. It won't be easy; only because you have no experience; but in no time you can be a free thinking, responsible, divorced mom. You've already realized you do not want a life of being told what to do or taken care of, so go explore! It is an adventure!<br><b>References : </b><br> You can do this. Women, by nature, are able to buckle down and do what needs to be done to protect and provide for their children. It won’t be easy; only because you have no experience; but in no time you can be a free thinking, responsible, divorced mom. You’ve already realized you do not want a life of being told what to do or taken care of, so go explore! It is an adventure!
References :

]]> Comment on I need advice from divorced women with kids…? by Sweet_Di http://www.pastcaring.org/divorce-advice-for-women/i-need-advice-from-divorced-women-with-kids/comment-page-1#comment-684 Sweet_Di Sun, 20 May 2012 06:37:59 +0000 http://www.pastcaring.org/divorce-advice-for-women/i-need-advice-from-divorced-women-with-kids#comment-684 you can do it. i got out of an 15 yr abusive marriage. get a job hide your money. save up your money get a place to live and get a lawyer. you can do it. you are allowed to take have half of his money out of the savings and checking account if you are on his accounts. and you have the right to half the house either he will have to sell the house or refinance it and give you half of what is is worth. when the house is appraised make sure he is not there to talk to the guy. that is how i got screwed on what the house was worth,. the guy he used was a friend of his.<br><b>References : </b><br> you can do it. i got out of an 15 yr abusive marriage. get a job hide your money. save up your money get a place to live and get a lawyer. you can do it. you are allowed to take have half of his money out of the savings and checking account if you are on his accounts. and you have the right to half the house either he will have to sell the house or refinance it and give you half of what is is worth. when the house is appraised make sure he is not there to talk to the guy. that is how i got screwed on what the house was worth,. the guy he used was a friend of his.
References :

]]> Comment on Advice on how to breakup with my boyfriend? by Lovely Girl http://www.pastcaring.org/boyfriend-breakup-advice/advice-on-how-to-breakup-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1#comment-673 Lovely Girl Sun, 20 May 2012 06:33:59 +0000 http://www.pastcaring.org/boyfriend-breakup-advice/advice-on-how-to-breakup-with-my-boyfriend#comment-673 Look just Say it's Over and No explanations. Explanations they are just ther e to make everything more complicated just leave it at that.and remember~Unless you Change How you Are,you will always have what you've Got. God bless.<br><b>References : </b><br>Life~Experienceszx~<3~ Look just Say it’s Over and No explanations. Explanations they are just ther e to make everything more complicated just leave it at that.and remember~Unless you Change How you Are,you will always have what you’ve Got. God bless.
References :
Life~Experienceszx~<3~

]]> Comment on I need advice from divorced women with kids…? by E&L http://www.pastcaring.org/divorce-advice-for-women/i-need-advice-from-divorced-women-with-kids/comment-page-1#comment-683 E&L Sun, 20 May 2012 06:13:59 +0000 http://www.pastcaring.org/divorce-advice-for-women/i-need-advice-from-divorced-women-with-kids#comment-683 I'm a bit confused by what you mean as 'adult supervision'? Are you considering the last four years being under the adult supervision of your husband? You have married, run a household, given birth to two children and are raising them . . . what type of 'adult supervision' have you needed? Have you stepped back and asked yourself where things went off track? Since you are living a life of unhappiness did you ever think he feels his princess is also gone and replaced with a mother to his children? It seems as if the two of you lost each other as a couple, try working on that before splitting the family. Believe me, being a single parent with two young children will be a lot harder bother physically and emotionally that the 'unhappiness' you feel right now. Until you are strong enough to stand by your decisions and have a clear path for your daughter don't leave on a whim thinking things will work out . . .you must plan your exit the same way you plan a wedding. You must know where you will live and how you will support yourself BEFORE you start this process (and have the money to do it).<br><b>References : </b><br> I’m a bit confused by what you mean as ‘adult supervision’? Are you considering the last four years being under the adult supervision of your husband? You have married, run a household, given birth to two children and are raising them . . . what type of ‘adult supervision’ have you needed?

Have you stepped back and asked yourself where things went off track? Since you are living a life of unhappiness did you ever think he feels his princess is also gone and replaced with a mother to his children? It seems as if the two of you lost each other as a couple, try working on that before splitting the family. Believe me, being a single parent with two young children will be a lot harder bother physically and emotionally that the ‘unhappiness’ you feel right now. Until you are strong enough to stand by your decisions and have a clear path for your daughter don’t leave on a whim thinking things will work out . . .you must plan your exit the same way you plan a wedding. You must know where you will live and how you will support yourself BEFORE you start this process (and have the money to do it).
References :

]]> Comment on does anyone have any bad cheating stories? by RAERAY http://www.pastcaring.org/bad-boyfriend-stories/does-anyone-have-any-bad-cheating-stories/comment-page-1#comment-701 RAERAY Sun, 20 May 2012 06:00:59 +0000 http://www.pastcaring.org/bad-boyfriend-stories/does-anyone-have-any-bad-cheating-stories#comment-701 I use to have dreams of me my friend Tori and my bf Anthony for several nights we would all hangout together in my dreams and then one dream was when we were in the cafeteria and he kissed me and kissed her when I turned my back. Then the next day after that dream me and my friend were talking I finally told her my bf name and she said Anthony what I said the last and middle name she said awl girl he go with me to lmfao. So my dreams weren’t lying they were telling me something.<br><b>References : </b><br> I use to have dreams of me my friend Tori and my bf Anthony for several nights we would all hangout together in my dreams and then one dream was when we were in the cafeteria and he kissed me and kissed her when I turned my back. Then the next day after that dream me and my friend were talking I finally told her my bf name and she said Anthony what I said the last and middle name she said awl girl he go with me to lmfao. So my dreams weren’t lying they were telling me something.
References :

]]> Comment on Is it wrong to kiss a guy five days after breaking up with your boyfriend? by lou_300 http://www.pastcaring.org/breaking-up-with-your-boyfriend/is-it-wrong-to-kiss-a-guy-five-days-after-breaking-up-with-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1#comment-690 lou_300 Sun, 20 May 2012 05:52:59 +0000 http://www.pastcaring.org/breaking-up-with-your-boyfriend/is-it-wrong-to-kiss-a-guy-five-days-after-breaking-up-with-your-boyfriend#comment-690 Absolutely nothing wrong with that, seeing as you're single. I did exactly the same thing. Stop feeling guilty about it. :)<br><b>References : </b><br>Been there, done that. :) Absolutely nothing wrong with that, seeing as you’re single. I did exactly the same thing. Stop feeling guilty about it. :)
References :
Been there, done that. :)

]]> Comment on Advice on how to breakup with my boyfriend? by Danielle Campbell http://www.pastcaring.org/boyfriend-breakup-advice/advice-on-how-to-breakup-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1#comment-672 Danielle Campbell Sun, 20 May 2012 05:52:59 +0000 http://www.pastcaring.org/boyfriend-breakup-advice/advice-on-how-to-breakup-with-my-boyfriend#comment-672 Tell him yOu don't feel comfortable and he can't respect you then it's over! Be real with him, answer mine please? Thanks!!!!<br><b>References : </b><br> Tell him yOu don’t feel comfortable and he can’t respect you then it’s over! Be real with him, answer mine please? Thanks!!!!
References :

]]> Comment on What is a good song about your boyfriend breaking up with you? by BlaiseBabayy http://www.pastcaring.org/breaking-up-with-your-boyfriend/what-is-a-good-song-about-your-boyfriend-breaking-up-with-you/comment-page-1#comment-694 BlaiseBabayy Sun, 20 May 2012 05:45:59 +0000 http://www.pastcaring.org/breaking-up-with-your-boyfriend/what-is-a-good-song-about-your-boyfriend-breaking-up-with-you#comment-694 I know listening to music seems like the thing to do.. But if you're perfect for each other no amount of music is gonna change anything.. Talk to him.. If he says he doesn't wanna get back with you..don't mope, you have to take it..sure it'll hurt but at the end of the day he'd be the past and it'd make you who you are. Every break up only brings you closer to finding true love. If he says he wants to get back with you..make him promise not to believe stupid rumors anymore...How dare he do that in the first place!<br><b>References : </b><br> I know listening to music seems like the thing to do..
But if you’re perfect for each other no amount of music is gonna change anything..
Talk to him..
If he says he doesn’t wanna get back with you..don’t mope, you have to take it..sure it’ll hurt but at the end of the day he’d be the past and it’d make you who you are.
Every break up only brings you closer to finding true love.
If he says he wants to get back with you..make him promise not to believe stupid rumors anymore…How dare he do that in the first place!
References :

]]> Comment on I need advice from divorced women with kids…? by chacha http://www.pastcaring.org/divorce-advice-for-women/i-need-advice-from-divorced-women-with-kids/comment-page-1#comment-682 chacha Sun, 20 May 2012 05:42:59 +0000 http://www.pastcaring.org/divorce-advice-for-women/i-need-advice-from-divorced-women-with-kids#comment-682 Dear Criminal - I am a happily divorced mother of two boys. Yes, divorce is hard, but it's not the end all or end of the world! You will get thru it. It will take time, but you will lead a perfectly normal life without your husband. There are resources available...starting with child support. You are very young and you are right when you say that you don't want to and shouldn't model "unhappiness is normal" for your girls. No one should be unhappy in any relationship or marriage. Plus it is not healthy for you or your girls if you're that unhappy and you stay. The first thing you should do is contact your family members or close friends wherever they are. Talk about your situation with them and get their perspective on things. It's very healthy to talk about it. You shouldn't have to bare this alone. Then if you are quite sure you still want a divorce, seek a divorce lawyer. The retainer shouldn't be more than $500 up front. You can pay the rest in time. Also, have you tried talking to your spouse about your relationship? Or have you tried counseling. You should exhaust all resources before proceeding with divorce. All in all, believe me when I tell you there is life after divorce. And since you're so young, you have the rest of your life to be happy - not miserable honey. Divorcing my husband was the best thing for me and my sons. We are much happier now - and children DO recover from divorce. Yes, life is different, but your children will see you happy! And life with one happy parent is better than life with two unhappy parents. Good Luck!! Cha<br><b>References : </b><br>DIVORCED SINGLE MOM AND VERY HAPPY!!!!!!! Dear Criminal –

I am a happily divorced mother of two boys. Yes, divorce is hard, but it’s not the end all or end of the world! You will get thru it. It will take time, but you will lead a perfectly normal life without your husband.

There are resources available…starting with child support. You are very young and you are right when you say that you don’t want to and shouldn’t model "unhappiness is normal" for your girls. No one should be unhappy in any relationship or marriage. Plus it is not healthy for you or your girls if you’re that unhappy and you stay.

The first thing you should do is contact your family members or close friends wherever they are. Talk about your situation with them and get their perspective on things. It’s very healthy to talk about it. You shouldn’t have to bare this alone. Then if you are quite sure you still want a divorce, seek a divorce lawyer. The retainer shouldn’t be more than $500 up front. You can pay the rest in time. Also, have you tried talking to your spouse about your relationship? Or have you tried counseling. You should exhaust all resources before proceeding with divorce.

All in all, believe me when I tell you there is life after divorce. And since you’re so young, you have the rest of your life to be happy – not miserable honey. Divorcing my husband was the best thing for me and my sons. We are much happier now – and children DO recover from divorce. Yes, life is different, but your children will see you happy! And life with one happy parent is better than life with two unhappy parents.

Good Luck!!

Cha
References :
DIVORCED SINGLE MOM AND VERY HAPPY!!!!!!!

]]>