So my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 months, hes a year older than me, and is a lot stronger than me. Hes moving WAY to fast for me and he doesn’t listen when I tell him that i don’t want to go as far as he wants me to go. He disrespects me and repeatedly tries to remove my purity ring, and that is when i officially decided we were done. I just am not good at breaking up with guys and im afraid that he will try to take advantage of me when i tell him… any advice????
The best advice I can give you is to be strong, hold your ground and don’t let him change your mind.
Thank you so much for opening this question I really appreciate it. So I am 15 and my ex is 16. Just because I am young doesn’t mean I can’t be in a relationship with someone that I have feelings for. So we broke up on Thursday. I think it was his fault because he kept on not really talkng to me like not saying hi or hugging me when he saw me. He says that he gets "zoned out" easily. So, I haven’t cried since the breakup and I’m pretty proud of myself for doing so but at the same time I miss him. It’s not just a break up it’s a loss. It’s not the same anymore. No more hugging when I see him before and after school, not getting any texts from him anymore (he was the main person I text), no more kisses. It just sucks because I have to see him in school all the time. Everyone says he looks kinda down but when I see him he looks just fine. I have been telling everyone that I feel great, it was only a couple months and I have a huge smile on my face. We have been together for over a year total. We have been together three times since last March. I know what everyone says, why do you guys keep on getting back together its not worth it blah blah, but we don’t give up on each other. The connection builds back up and I hate it. He said sup to me a couple days to go and I said hi back and I smiled at him. Sometimes I catch him staring at me from the corner of my eye. I mean it just sucks not to have him there for me especially since I am going through problems that he helped me with. I do want to talk to him, but at the same time I’ll feel stupid for it because we just broke up and I am scared that I am wasting my time talking to him if he is over me so quick. I wish I knew what he was thinking. But anyway, should I start talking to him? You know just like saying hi. SORRY THAT IT IS SO LONG ITS JUST I NEVER SHARED MY FEELINGS WITH ANYONE SINCE EVERYONE THINKS I AM HAPPY. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANSWERING I REALLY APPRECIATE IT! Have a good night! 
It’s worth a shot to talk to him, he may not be over you, he might just be putting on that face because he don’t want people (esp you) to see how much he is hurting. You need to be real about the situation and realize that the worst thing that could happen is he doesn’t want to talk to you, but I honestly don’t think that’s the case, I think he would talk to you. Take the risk and talk to him, at least then you’ll know where things stand and you won’t have the regret of never knowing what would have happened. Good luck, sweetie